Prepare Dinah's roux as follows (in her own words): "When I make a white sauce (roux), I generally start with 1/4 cup of salted butter, 1/4 cup of flour, a pinch of salt and pepper, and 1 cup of milk. I melt the butter on low in a pot, add the flower and quickly whisk it. When it is basically a paste, I stir in the milk*, whisking constantly while bringing to a boil on medium-high.** I hold it at a boil till it starts to visibly thicken. Then I turn off the heat, add the salt and pepper, stir more. This is a good time to to add other things like shredded cheese if you're making mac and cheese, or some herbs to toss with pasta.
*folks can choose to use unsalted butter if they prefer less salt. I prefer it a bit saltier myself.
**don't stop whisking. It's a pretty fast boil, and the roux will scald. Burned roux is not good roux."